Living in Oneness

July 6, 2006

The beauty of this process

Hello dear readers, my name is Alexis Shaffer and the beloved people of this newspaper have invited me to share my experiences with you.

The beauty of this process is that it is so simple, it doesn't require any effort and it is available to all of those who wish to awaken to the great abundance of Grace direct from God. Diksha is a transfer of energy, a phenomenon of Grace, which creates an opening through which you can experience the true desires of your heart: Love, God, Joy, Peace, Healing… directly and completely.

You, your freedom and your liberation is what is most important to me.

These are some experiences from people who have received Diksha.

The experience was tremendous for me since I felt a bit distrusting and much curiosity to know what exactly would happen when I closed my eyes, to begin the exercise. Nevertheless continuing as Alexis indicated, little by little I was transported to a deep state of peace, also seeing many different colors in my mind, which varied from red or Mexican rose to yellow and violet, and as my concentration deepened I saw more copper colors. As the session finished and I returned to my daily work routine, everything suddenly became so much easier. I had much more energy, not feeling at all tired however that evening upon falling asleep without a doubt, I did rest very intensely/deeply. Later, on another occasion attending Alexis’s group at the beach, while doing the exercise concentrating on cleansing the chakras, I was able to easily visualize all the colors. Juan Carlos

I found the exercise that we performed to be absolutely excellent!! In the beginning I didn’t think it would be that great, but after experiencing it, the only thing I can do is recommend it! The feeling of tranquility and relaxation that one feels during the session and after is remarkable! During the course of the exercise you experience a mixture of feelings which vary from the unexplainable, all the way to complete relief, comfort and deep serenity!!!
Finally I would just like to thank you for offering and allowing the staff of this institution to gain access to these kind of exercises and I sure hope they will be repeated, as frequently as possible. Thank you very much… Sincerely Forensic Services

"The time for the healing of the wounds is here. The moment to bridge the chasms that divide us has come.

The time to build is upon us." Nelson Mandela


In relationships you suffer because you try to understand. Trying to understand and finding fault would never help. It is like peeling an onion; you could keep on peeling and arrive nowhere. If you were to read psychology or philosophy to try to explain understand the other, there is no hope for you. You judge because you do not feel connected to the other. If only you would have learnt the art of experiencing the other, whether your spouse, parent or child - you would be in joy.

I often give an example of a strange couple I met. He was a dean of a medical college, she was a vegetable vendor. He was handsome, well-read, cultured and prosperous. And she was the opposite. There marriage was strange because they got into an agreement before marriage that neither would ask the other to change. He experiences her wild and rustic ways, while she experiences his dignity and calmness. Neither trying to change the other. It is one of the most successful marriages I have ever seen. 25 yrs of marriage, they still have life in their relationship.

If you could experience your wife as she nags, screams or yells at you that would be most beautiful. Similarly as your husband bothers, troubles you or is indifferent, if you could experience him without trying to change him, you would experience joy. This is the only way you could set right your relationships and relationships then become a source of joy.

Thoughts and concepts create an artificial barrier, a separation between human beings. Your interactions are then not rooted in being, but become mind-based. Without the conceptual barriers, love is naturally present in all human interactions.

Most human interactions are confined to the exchange of words – the realm of thought. It is essential to bring some stillness, particularly into you close relationships.

No relationship can thrive without the sense of spaciousness that comes with stillness. Meditate or spend silent time in nature together. When going for a walk or sitting in the car or relaxing at home, become comfortable with being in stillness together. Stillness cannot and need not be created. Just be receptive to the stillness that is already there, but is usually obscured by mental noise. If spacious stillness is missing, the relationship will be dominated by the mind and can easily be taken over by problems and conflict. If stillness is there, it can contain anything.

True listening is another way of bringing stillness into the relationship. When you truly listen to someone, the dimension of stillness arises and becomes an essential part of the relationship. But true listening is a rare skill. Usually, the greater part of a person’s attention is taken up by their thinking. At best, they may be evaluating your words or preparing the next thing to say. Or they may not be listening at all, lost in their own thoughts.

True listening goes far beyond auditory reception. It is the arising of alert attention, a space of presence in which the words are being received. The words now become secondary. They may be meaningful or they may not make sense. Far more important than what you are listening to is the act of listening itself, the space of conscious presence that arises as you listen. That space is a unifying field of awareness in which you meet the other person without the separation barriers created by conceptual thinking. And now the other person is no longer “other.” In that space, you are joined together as ‘one awareness’, one consciousness.

Captivation is not love, emotion is not love, attachment is not love, and possession is not love. In the moment when you discover real love, you will also discover a deep connection; you will suddenly feel connected with your parents, with your siblings, your friends and absolutely everyone in the world. Without this connection, life is not worthy of being lived. Love is to be discovered. It will happen.

Please feel free to write me at:

I’ll be happy to share this TRANSFORMING WONDERFUL DIVINE GRACE through DIKSHA with your friends and family so that ALL experience the TRUE JOY OF LIVING that is our birth right!
Suffering is UNNECESSARY! I guarantee to you that there is ANOTHER WAY!
WE ALL ARE ONE ONLY LOVE EXISTS…. Everything else is just an illusion!
I’ll be even happier to show you giving you the opportunity to have your own experience through Diksha.

I invite you to receive Smarana Diksha (Diksha transmitted long distance) every Sunday at 11am CA time. You only need to please sit quietly with closed eyes from 7 to 28 minutes breathing into your heart space and requesting that the Divine Presence fill you completely healing your mind and body. Enjoy!!
As myself and many other Diksha Givers are sending Diksha with much love.

I love you all and send you BIG HUGS full of Love.